Ocean of Morality
  • Blog
  • Family
  • Relatives
  • Countries
  • Gallery
  • Guestbook
  • JD's Blog

....

31/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Picture
0 Comments

All's well that ends well

30/8/2025

3 Comments

 
This month marks the 20th Anniversary of my blog, and I've decided to call it a day. The blog was originally set up to record and share my adventures in China. Now that I'm back in the UK, things are somewhat less newsworthy and, now I'm in a country which doesn't block it, Facebook is a much easier way to share special events.
Picture
I reckon I have made about 4000 blog entries over the years, though the first 4 years or so were on a different blogging platform and only exist in Word format (hence the occasional "Flashback" entries). At one point the blog was getting almost 100 views clicks a day. Now it's rarely above 10. Understandable. My hope is that one day someone (like JD?) will delve back into the old blog entries and relive some memories or find out something fresh about my life and adventures. 
Picture
Picture
So cheers for reading this final entry and, if you are one of the few who have been dipping in and out of the blog since the very beginning (or thereabouts), a big thank you! I really appreciate it. Leave a comment below if you like. From "Ocean of Morality", Goodbye!​
3 Comments

About bloody time!

28/8/2025

0 Comments

 
It's been decades since I last gave blood - China would never accept my offer! But having been to Albania this month, and having lived in China for 20+ years, and being on three prescribed medicines, it took the nurses over an hour of admin to clear me. The blood itself was out in 5 minutes. 
Picture
0 Comments

All win

26/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Nice visit today from my Uncle Graham and Auntie Alwyn. They live just 45 mins drive away, so we've been able to make mutual visits since returning from China, which helps to build family bonds.
Picture
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Nine "Nine at Nene"

24/8/2025

0 Comments

 
We left Ratch and Steve this morning, visiting Nene Car Boot Sale for some bargains before heading home. It's been a long and, at times, quite tiring whistle-stop tour of England and Scotland, but very enjoyable overall. Some 1500 miles spread over nine days!
Picture
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Eight "Wakefield to Woolsthorpe"

23/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Picture
Before we left Wakefield, Andy showed us around Sandal Castle. This is apparently the mound up which the children's rhyme, "The Grand Old Duke of York" marched his 10,000 men! It's a ruin now, but was the site of a major battle in the War of the Roses.

We then drove on to Woolsthorpe Manor - birthplace and workplace of Isaac Newton. We had our National Trust lunch picnic there and enjoyed  a good look around.
Picture
We then drove on to Northampton to spend the night with my good friends Ratch and Steve. Ratch cooked up an amazing lasagne and roulade dessert. We played some board games and headed to bed.
Picture
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Seven "Amble to Shambles"

22/8/2025

0 Comments

 
After a free youth hostel breakfast and a final paddle in the sea, we headed to York. The delayed start and traffic on the way meant we didn't have much time there, which was disappointing. But JiaJia found an authentic Chinese restaurant and we splurged on some of the food she misses most. A little walk around the old "Shambles" streets and we headed off to stay the night with my College friends, Andy and Liz. 
Picture
Picture
Andy cooked up a lovely Asian infused dinner which we shared with their son and daughter and their partners. Andy lived next door to me at College for a number of years, and we'd previously only met up once in the last decade (by accident as it happens), so it was great to catch up at last.
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Six "Ambling to Amble"

21/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Today was our longest drive - nearly six hours - to Amble on the Northumbrian coast. We were rewarded with this view from our AirBnB; a surprisingly empty and high-end youth hostel.
Picture
Highlight of the day though was receiving an e-mail saying that JD had not only passed his GCSE in Mandarin, but scored a 9. This is equivalent to an old A* and, while we expected him to pass, we didn't anticipate him doing so well (he's 4 years younger than the normal GCSE age).
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Five "Lakes to Lochs"

20/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Picture
Long but picturesque drive from the Lake District to Loch Ness and our AirBnB in Inverness. Later we drove out to Dingwall for a lovely meal and walk with Ruth - a friend from College days (and daughter Izzy).
Picture
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Four "Sausages to Stirling"

19/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Andrea and Vaughn treated to a full English breakfast before we headed into Scotland to explore the impressive Stirling Castle.
Picture
Our AirBnB was a chance to try glamping, to mixed reviews. JiaJia and JD loved the hot tub though. 
Picture
Picture
Picture
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Three "Sizergh to Swindells"

18/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Picture
Picture
We left our cottage by crossing this little bridge. Then on to Sizerbergh Castle [left] ...more of a house than a castle... for our usual National Trust picnic lunch. 
Then to the Lake District, sopping at Lake Windermere for JD to play with his Remote Controlled boat and JiaJia to wonder at the beauty.
Picture
Later, we climbed "Gummer's How". JD found some sort of pixie [right]! The peak afforded some fantastic views of the lake [below].
Picture
Picture
We drove on to Kendal to stay the night with my cousins - Andrea and Vaughn Swindell - but not before enjoying their amazing food!
Picture
Picture
0 Comments

GB trip - Day Two "Haworth to Hebdon"

17/8/2025

0 Comments

 
After visiting a large Car Boot Sale, we drove to East Riddlestone Manor for our National Trust ​picnic. 
Picture
On we drove to Haworth to see the Bronte Sisters' Parsonage - somewhere JiaJia has long dreamt of visiting since reading "Jane Eyre" as a teenager in China.
Picture
After a brief walk around the pretty village, we drove on and spent our second night in a Grade II listed AirBnb cottage in Hebden Bridge.
Picture
0 Comments

GB trip - Day One "Chipp to Ched"

16/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Picture
We started our 9-day drive around England and Scotland today. 
Picture
Picture
Picture
Our first stop was at Chedworth Roman Villa [above left] en route to our National Trust picnic in the pretty gardens of Hidcote Manor [top]. 

​We spent the afternoon in Stratford-upon-Avon [above right], visiting Shakespeare's birthplace and the odd "Tudorworld" interactive museum. 

Then to our first AirBnB - a converted barn in Matlock, where our host kindly showed us his collection of restored racing motorbikes!
0 Comments

BBQ or two

14/8/2025

0 Comments

 
We've been trying our hand at a little barbecuing this Summer, with mixed success. It reminds JiaJia of street food back in China while JD is just a sucker for meat, meat, meat!
Picture
Picture
0 Comments

Durrës, done and dusty

12/8/2025

0 Comments

 
We headed out of Tirana yesterday to the seaside town of Durrës. The highlight for me was the 2000 year old amphitheatre. JD was keen to swim in the sea, but it didn't really live up to his memories of the warm, fish-filled bays that he enjoyed on holiday in Malaysia a few years ago.
Picture
We've tried some Albanian food over the last few days, but haven't been that impressed with the rather stodgy stew/bread based cuisine. Instead we found an authentic and well-priced Chinese restaurant within walking distance of our hotel and have enjoyed meals there more than once! We fly back to the UK this evening.
Picture
Picture
0 Comments

Terrifying Tirana

10/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Picture
Picture
We took a cable car up a mountain today to get a great view of Tirana. Some of the 20 minute journey was quite steep, leading to some squeals from JiaJia! 

More scary overall though is the current heatwave here which peaked at 46°C today. We are hugging any area of shade as we walk from place to place.
0 Comments

Albania bound

8/8/2025

0 Comments

 
We flew into Tirana, Albania today. Albania only has a population of 3 million so, despite being the capital city, Tirana still feels quite small (½ million). We've started to have a look around including the quirky Bunk'Art (a museum/gallery situated in an underground bunker) and the beautiful Namazgah Mosque. 
Picture
Picture
0 Comments

Of corfe you can

6/8/2025

0 Comments

 
We visited Corfe Castle today. So much to see and do. We loved it. Plus it was free, as we are National Trust members! Woohoo!
Picture
0 Comments

Tanks for the memory

4/8/2025

0 Comments

 
Picture
Today we drove to the Tank Museum in Bovington, Dorset. JD was in his element, explaining the name, function, strengths and weaknesses of each tank from memory, before we even read the signage. There must be over 100 tanks on display and we were all tanked-out by the end! The highlight of the trip was definitely, "Tanks in Action!" where we watched a variety of tanks belting round a large arena firing at each other. Awesome!
Picture
0 Comments

Basil done

2/8/2025

0 Comments

 
On our way home from visiting my parents, we stopped at Basildon Park Manor - a National Trust property more or less en route.
Picture
Its main claim to fame is the Shell Room, with furniture, ornaments and pictures covered in shells [bottom right]. JiaJia was more fascinated by the various Chinese vases on display, however, and roped in the property's top historian to help her check for authenticating marks [bottom right]! He, in turn, was very grateful to get more background information on many of the pieces from JiaJia who knows about this sort of thing!
Picture
Picture
0 Comments

I've an ivory

30/7/2025

0 Comments

 
14 years of marriage is an ivory celebration apparently, though no elephants were injured in our celebration! 
Picture
0 Comments

That's all, folks!

28/7/2025

0 Comments

 
We drove down to Sidcup today to spend a few days with my lovely parents. Dad loves nothing more than colouring in patterns(?!) while Mum is forever trying to work her new phone! 
Picture
Picture
They find aging difficult at times, but still manage to keep a tidy garden and spotless house, while Mum also cooked up a delicious Wedding Anniversary meal for JiaJia and me. Not bad in your 80s!​
0 Comments

Another year...

26/7/2025

0 Comments

 
A year ago, Julian visited us on his birthday (in our old house) with his brother, Chris. A year later, he visited us again (in our new house) with his son, Jonathon. We celebrated his birthday yesterday and spent a nice day in Avebury today (despite some light rain).They will be back in China in a week's time.
Picture
0 Comments

TA? ta!

24/7/2025

0 Comments

 
After a flurry of last-minute interviews, demo classes and paperwork, I've been offered a job at Ivy Lane Primary School - the school where I've been volunteering this term. So, starting in September, I'll be working with two Year 6 classes.
Picture
It's a lovely school with very supportive staff and polite children. Plus it's just two minutes walk from my house! Ideal.
0 Comments

Hey, Miki!

22/7/2025

0 Comments

 
We had a lovely visit from Miki at the weekend. We worked out we have known each other for some 30 years and, when I dropped her an email the other day, it turns out she's currently working in Bristol - not far away - on the musical of Moulin Rouge. 
Picture
We had late lunch and put the world to rights before she headed off on her bike/train home. She's "one of a kind" and it was great to catch up!
0 Comments
<<Previous
    paul hider

    Author

    Paul Hider started this blog to share his rather odd life living in China for over 20 years. Since returning to the UK in 2024, the blog now records his more "normal" lifestyle!

    Past blog entries

    August 2025
    July 2025
    June 2025
    May 2025
    April 2025
    March 2025
    February 2025
    January 2025
    December 2024
    November 2024
    October 2024
    September 2024
    August 2024
    July 2024
    June 2024
    May 2024
    April 2024
    March 2024
    February 2024
    January 2024
    December 2023
    November 2023
    October 2023
    September 2023
    August 2023
    July 2023
    June 2023
    May 2023
    April 2023
    March 2023
    February 2023
    January 2023
    December 2022
    November 2022
    October 2022
    September 2022
    August 2022
    July 2022
    June 2022
    May 2022
    April 2022
    March 2022
    February 2022
    January 2022
    December 2021
    November 2021
    October 2021
    September 2021
    August 2021
    July 2021
    June 2021
    May 2021
    April 2021
    March 2021
    February 2021
    January 2021
    December 2020
    November 2020
    October 2020
    September 2020
    August 2020
    July 2020
    June 2020
    May 2020
    April 2020
    March 2020
    February 2020
    January 2020
    December 2019
    November 2019
    October 2019
    September 2019
    August 2019
    July 2019
    June 2019
    May 2019
    April 2019
    March 2019
    February 2019
    January 2019
    December 2018
    November 2018
    October 2018
    September 2018
    August 2018
    July 2018
    June 2018
    May 2018
    April 2018
    March 2018
    February 2018
    January 2018
    December 2017
    November 2017
    October 2017
    September 2017
    August 2017
    July 2017
    June 2017
    May 2017
    April 2017
    March 2017
    February 2017
    January 2017
    December 2016
    November 2016
    October 2016
    September 2016
    August 2016
    July 2016
    June 2016
    May 2016
    April 2016
    March 2016
    February 2016
    January 2016
    December 2015
    November 2015
    October 2015
    September 2015
    August 2015
    July 2015
    June 2015
    May 2015
    April 2015
    March 2015
    February 2015
    January 2015
    December 2014
    November 2014
    October 2014
    September 2014
    August 2014
    July 2014
    June 2014
    May 2014
    April 2014
    March 2014
    February 2014
    January 2014
    December 2013
    November 2013
    October 2013
    September 2013
    August 2013
    July 2013
    June 2013
    May 2013
    April 2013
    March 2013
    February 2013
    January 2013
    December 2012
    November 2012
    October 2012
    September 2012
    August 2012
    July 2012
    June 2012
    May 2012
    April 2012
    March 2012
    February 2012
    January 2012
    December 2011
    November 2011
    October 2011
    September 2011
    August 2011
    July 2011
    June 2011
    May 2011
    April 2011
    March 2011
    February 2011
    January 2011
    December 2010
    November 2010
    October 2010
    September 2010
    August 2010
    July 2010
    June 2010
    May 2010
    April 2010
    March 2010
    February 2010
    January 2010
    December 2009
    November 2009
    October 2009
    September 2009
    August 2009
    July 2009

    Tags

    All
    Albania
    April Fool
    Art Club
    Badminton
    Basketball
    Beijing
    Bike
    Birthday
    Blog
    CAL
    Car
    Car Boot Sale
    Cataract
    Cemetery
    China
    Chinglish
    Chippenham
    ChongQing
    Christmas
    Competition
    Construction
    Cooking
    Cop15
    Countryside
    COVID
    Dali
    Dancing Lady
    Dave & Esme
    Den
    Dentist
    Diabetes
    Disaster
    Diving
    DnD
    Dorta
    Druncle
    Earthquake
    Ebike
    Education
    Everton
    Exams
    Exercise
    Family
    Film
    Fish
    Fishing
    Flashback
    Food
    Forest
    Fossils
    Friends
    Furniture
    Gabriel Mews
    Games
    Garden
    Gary Numan
    GB Trip
    Geese
    Gerry Anderson
    Grand Tour
    Gym
    Halloween
    Hamsters
    Handyman
    Health
    Heijing
    Holiday
    Home
    Home Schooling
    Homework
    IELTS
    IKEA
    Illusion
    ILM5
    Ivy Lane
    JD
    Jiajia
    Kindergarten
    Krista And Stuart
    Kunming
    Language
    Laos
    Lattitude
    Leaf
    Lego
    Lexulous
    London
    Ma
    Malaysia
    Mandarin
    Merton
    Mind-gap
    Minority
    Molly
    Mountain
    Movie
    Museum
    Nancy & Family
    Nanny
    National Trust
    Neighbourhood
    New Flat
    Olympics
    Outing
    Painting
    Parents
    Park
    Park Run
    Party
    Paul & Crystal
    Pets
    Photographs
    Podcast
    Police
    Pregnancy
    Primary School
    Private Tuition
    Random Travel
    Relatives
    Renovation
    R.I.P.
    R.S.L.
    Running
    Schools
    Schoolswork
    Sci-fi
    Sheldon
    Shenzhen
    Shopping
    Ski
    Sport
    Spring Festival
    Sri Lanka
    Swimming
    Temple
    TESOL
    Thailand
    Theme Park
    Traffic
    Training
    Transport
    Travel
    Tutoring
    TV
    Typewriters
    UFO
    UK
    UK Move
    UK Return
    University
    Vietnam
    Violence
    Visit
    VSO
    Water
    Weather
    Wedding
    Wildlife
    Wiltshire
    Work
    World Cup
    Xi'An
    Xishuangbanna
    YUFE
    Yunnan
    Zoo
    Zoom

Powered by Create your own unique website with customizable templates.