Just when you think you've got a handle on the peculiarities of Chinese ways, something new and bizarre pops up. One of the foods I was asked to bring in today was a small uncooked potato. On receipt, Ava's Mum cut off a thin slice and applied it to her wrist. A kind of medicine, she insisted! So we are paying hundreds of pounds for western pills and a hospital bed ...plus a raw tatty. Work that one out.
Unknown to us at the time, Ava's Mum spent two weeks in hospital while we were in the UK with a kidney problem. And she returned to hospital again yesterday after a bit of a relapse. With Ava away on business in Shenzhen it fell to me to get her a bed and bring in supplies. Thankfully, she's not comatose or anything, so she's been able to do all the explaining, ward-finding and bribing herself. I've been in Chinese hospitals dozens of times before, but this was the first time when I wasn't the sick one! I'm so glad I've never had to stay in one, though. They really are tatty places; noisy, dirty, chaotic and falling apart. Her room is half the size of my bedroom, but has five beds sharing the space. There's hardly room to move. However, Ava's Mum seems to quite enjoy the hustle and bustle, the visits from concerned friends and, perhaps, the opportunity not to do all the washing, buying, cooking, etc.
Just when you think you've got a handle on the peculiarities of Chinese ways, something new and bizarre pops up. One of the foods I was asked to bring in today was a small uncooked potato. On receipt, Ava's Mum cut off a thin slice and applied it to her wrist. A kind of medicine, she insisted! So we are paying hundreds of pounds for western pills and a hospital bed ...plus a raw tatty. Work that one out. Well what do you know? Perhaps inspired by Dave starting up his blog again, my other brother Andy has started up a family blog too. Both blogs well worth a look. And now the pressure is on the old man ...got anything to share with the world, Dad? My brother Dave has started his family blog up again after a year doing other far more constructive things! I'm pleased though, as it helps me keep up with all his family news. Now if only I can persuade Andy and my parents to start one ...we'd never have to talk again! My new term starts today, though the other foreign teachers aren't due back until next weekend, due to a calendar mix-up last term! We had our usual whole-school meeting yesterday, preceded by a finger buffet! Our teaching building has a lovely little rooftop garden, owned by the residents of the next-door building. But we got special permission to use it for the afternoon, and had sandwiches, cakes and fruit to kick off the meeting. A nice change from the usual "meeting+banquet" format". The main item on the agenda was the school's tenth anniversary celebrations next month. The school have decided to update their logo, which currently shows the union of (Chinese) dragon and plum blossom with the (British) lion and oak branch [see above]. Having won their last competition to create a slogan ("Education for Communication") I'll have a go at this one, too. The winner gets a pair of tickets to a beauty spa, which caught Ava's interest! A teacher/artist combination ...we can't lose! Ava and I had a card in the post from our UK friend Vix today. She has a daily tear-off calendar which gives ideas for making cards, and decided to not only make them but send them to friends and family throughout the year. Lovely idea, right? I'm a big fan of "random acts of kindness". This was ours, chosen for the travelling theme. Thanks Vix! Jiajia and I spotted this car and trailer while in the UK. "Oooh, look - it's got the same initials as me." I said. "Yes, and it's also full of rubbish!" she instantly retorted. Who have I married? Heehee! We had a smooth trip back to Kunming, although with worse jet lag than usual. On boarding the connecting flight in Shanghai I was greeted by "Hey PJ!" - it was one of my students, on his way back from America! Ava and I began our long journey "home" yesterday evening, and arrive early tomorrow (local time). It's about 24 hours door-to-door. It's been a fabulous three weeks in the UK, full of wonderful experiences, happy memories and lots of love from family and friends. Thanks to all of you who supported us through your gifts, time, help and kindness.
Jiajia and I spent another nice day up in London today, this time with our friend "Ratch". We met in Little Venice - where London's various canals can be seen - and took a narrow boat down to Camden Market. Camden has three markets, each of which was bigger than I imagined the whole would be. There were stalls featuring food from all over the world, but we'd brought a picnic, so we resisted the yummy smells. And there were plenty of shops selling unique ornaments, unusual clothes and antiques. Surprisingly, Jiajia wasn't particularly impressed and so after a couple of hours looking around we headed off. Despite feeling tired from all the walking, we decided to try and squeeze in a look at the British Museum. It was the final unticked "things to do" that Jiajia and I had listed before coming to the UK. Jiajia was suddenly full of energy as she walked around, gazing at the Egyptian, Assyrian and then Chinese displays. "You've stolen all our best stuff", she wailed, but loved seeing it, beautifully displayed, all the same. It really is an impressive museum. We said some rushed goodbyes to Ratch at the railway station half an hour later and just caught our train home. A great last day in the UK. After the informal photos from our wedding celebration, we were keen to get some more formal pictures too. My brother Dave and his wife Sarah managed to arrange for a photographer to give us a few hours of her time, and found a magnificant crumbling castle as a unique backdrop. The resulting photos were great, as you can see. Click here for more. We were particularly fortunate to have made contact with a lady who owns a gorgeous Bed & Breakfast cottage next to the castle. She kindly allowed us "strangers" to use her rooms for changing clothes and her beautiful garden for bonus photos. She even cooked us a cake a supplied is with drink. What a star! As part of the attempt to fulfil Jiajia's, "I want to be a princess" wedding wishes, my brother Dave arranged for us to go horse-riding in the Brecon Beacons today. No sign of any dragons to slay, though we were technically in Wales. I had a bit of a dodgy start. Whilst everyone else's head took 1-3 attempts to find a hat that fitted, mine took 22! Is my head really that oddly shaped? But then it was Jiajia's turn to have difficulties, as her horse insisted on taking a different route to the rest of us, and grabbing whole branches of trees to munch as he went. Our instructor was very patient though, whilst Dave and Esme - old hands at this horse-riding lark - trotted around at will. The scenery was fantastic and the two hours flew by. Having said that, we were all walking funny for the rest of the day, so perhaps it was best that we stopped when we did! Great fun! We chose the coldest and windiest day of our time in the UK so far to visit the very exposed Dover Castle! Ava's romantic views of castle life were quickly blown away! Entry should have cost us over £30, but came free with our apartment. There's a lot to see and do in the castle area, but much of it includes outdoor queuing. We did one of the tunnel tours, but passed on the newest attraction as those brave souls waiting an hour in line for it looked frozen. We gave it few hours in total but were happy enough to get back to the car and return. Jiajia and I drove to Canterbury today, using my parents' car, lent to us for the week. The cathedral - Jiajia's third in a fortnight - was quite expensive and very busy, but had lots to see inside. The cost of parking in the city was even pricier though. Jiajia bought lots of fruit and I had my first Burger King in a couple of years. We'd thought about joining a tour of the river but, having seen one of their punts from a bridge, decided not to bother and headed back to our castle. "A princess in a castle" was how Jiajia first described what she wanted her UK wedding to be like. This first manifested itself as a bouncy castle at our Winchester celebrations (which turned out to be a monkey, rather than a castle!), but then my brother Dave tracked down a fantastic rentable apartment in Walmer Castle [above the greenhouses in the photos above]. Not only is this in the grounds of a certified castle and just down the road from the holiday home where we were staying at the weekend, but it has 10 acres of beautiful flower and fruit gardens (Ava loves gardens) and includes free entry to all the English Heritage sites in the area. The apartment itself is superb - spacious, clean and fully equipped. We arrived to find displays of flowers and a large food hamper which is keeping us well-fed. We are enjoying self-catering in the kitchen, which looks out onto blooming flowerbeds. We are loving taking evening walks in the gardens as we have private access after the tourists have left for the day. There are acres of flowers, fruit trees, perfectly manicured avenues of bushes, a wilder forest area and immaculate lawns. There is also a pretty garden designed around a lily pond, built for the Queen Mother when she was warden of the castle. We're having great weather, too. Most of our friends and family have arrived at Walmer now and it's lovely to catch up with them in a relaxed atmosphere. We walked to the sea this morning, where Vix made one of her famous stone artworks. Then suddenly the heavens opened and we all scuttled back to the house, soaked to the skin! This afternoon couldn't have been more different, with warm sunshine and clear skies. So we made the most of the fine weather with a garden bowls tournament. Sixteen competitors started with high hopes and it was finally won by Dave, Vix's boyfriend. But can it be a coincidence that his job involves advanced aerodynamics?
My parents drove Ava and I down to Walmer today. Ava has only really experienced tropical seas before and was intending to have a dip into the Kentish seas ...until she felt how cold it was! We are staying at "Westwood" - a beautiful London City Mission holiday home - along with various family and friends (sany of whom couldn't make it to the wedding celebration last weekend). Some are arriving today - others through the weekend. Ava and I also had a little look at Walmer Castle, where we'll be honeymooning next week. But more about that later. An ex-VSO friend of mine, Michael, kindly arranged for his daughter Ruth to show us around her fashion design studio in London today - of particular interest to Jiajia who has a background in design and would like to add her own clothes creations to the brands that she sells in her store. It was a hive of activity, full of inspiration and ideas for Jiajia to pursue when back in Kunming. We planned to visit the British Museum afterwards but the rain and a rather punishing sightseeing schedule this week saw us heading home instead. Another day in London today for Jiajia (Ava) and I. We spent a relaxed morning with our friends Jo, Rob, Aled and Ben. Harrods was first on the list for a looksee, followed by a walk to Hyde park for lunch and a visit to Princess Di's memorial. Then off to Covent Garden (Ava needed more "Lush" soap) and a Chinese buffet. My friend Miki had very generously bought top tickets for Ava and I to see "Mamma Mia" in the evening, including one of her famous backstage tours. She also got discounted tickets for my boss Robert and his Chinese wife Rachel, over in the UK for the school's Summer Camp, so were able to meet up to see behind scenes and then sit together to watch the show. It's a great musical and the two Chinese girls were the first to stand up and dance at the encore! A second day in London today, starting with a spin on the London Eye - fast changing from a "must-see" to a "not worth the silly price". After lunch with my friend Cathy, Jiajia and I wandered down the bank of Thames to the Tate Modern art gallery. As ever, there was the usual mix of thought-provoking items and absolute tat (should that be the Tat Modern?). I particularly enjoyed "piece of paper and a biro" (I kid you not). Actually, I tried to take a photo of "chair and fire extinguisher" but the gallery attendant told me it was just where he sat and not art. What does he know? Jiajia, at least, was taking it all seriously and got very excited on spotting a painting by her all-time favourite artist, "Modigliani". Later we crossed the Thames on the "formerly wobbly" Millennium Bridge and arrived at St. Paul's moments before it closed for tourists. I let Jiajia explore alone however, as the £15 entrance ticket seemed very steep for somewhere I used to go for free in my youth. Ironically, people claiming to "simply want to worship" were still let inside, and for free. Any liars could always ask for forgiveness once inside, I guess? Jiajia and I spent our first day up in London today. We just managed to get to Buckingham Palace in time for the changing of the guards, but Jiajia wasn't that impressed. Nor for the Palace itself or Hyde Park or Trafalgar Square. However, we hit gold dust with the National Gallery. As an art graduate in China, Ava had only seen world-class oil paintings in books. She loved seeing them up close, and it was a struggle to drag her away after a few hours. Covent Garden also hit the spot, with the "Lush Handmade Soap" shop parting her with a wad of money. Out with history and culture then and, next time round, we'll stick to oils (and lotions to remove oils). |
AuthorPaul Hider started this blog to share his rather odd life living in China for over 20 years. Since returning to the UK in 2024, the blog now records his more "normal" lifestyle! Past blog entries
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